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8 July 2019, 16:19
What does "keep the door open 3 inches" mean in Stranger Things? It means I'm gonna cry again.
The ending of Stranger Things 3 has undoubtably been one of the saddest moments of the series so far. The cast had issued warnings ahead of the release, telling us all to brace ourselves and stock up on tissues and, like fools, we low-key didn't believe them.
What could possibly be that sad in a show so epic? What could possibly happen that would have us reeling for the rest of the week, the month, the year? Weeeell, it turns out that there was one thing. And that one thing was a big thing. And that big thing was a DEVASTATING thing.
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That devastating moment is now responsible for the influx of hundreds and hundreds of tweets and memes referencing the phrase "keep the door open three inches" which plays a huge part in Eleven's storyline. What began as a hilarious moment between Eleven and Hopper at the beginning of the season, soon turned into one of the most poignant and heartbreaking moments of the entire show.
At the start of the season, we see that El has been spending a lot of time holed up in her room with her boyfriend Mike. Hopper, who is now her adoptive dad, is not exactly cool with it but allows her to spend time with him on one condition– the door must be kept open three inches.
Like any teenager, El rebels and ends up closing the door on several occasions which drives Hopper crazy, causing him to burst in a couple of times only to find El and her guest (Mike, or even Max) sitting there reading magazines oh so innocently.
Hopper soon comes to the end of his tether, sick and tired of not spending any time with his daughter so he asks Joyce to help write a speech that will lay down the law under his roof to the two loved up teens. Together, they write a short "heart to heart" speech but at the end of the season, we find out that he wrote his own emotional heartfelt speech on the paper underneath Joyce's.
When Joyce discovers the speech amongst his belongings in the final episode, she realises that Hop never even spoke to Eleven. So she hands her the letter and lets her read it.
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At the end of the speech, Hopper writes a closing line that echoes back to the beginning of the season, saying "But, please, if you don't mind, for the sake of your poor old dad, keep the door open three inches." (If you want to read the entire speech, we typed the whole thing up right here. Through tears. Lots and lots of tears.)
The scene–and Hopper's speech–reduced the fandom to tears almost immediately and the memes, tweets and reactions to that one tiny detail has sent them flying off the deep end.
“keep on growing up, make mistakes, learn from them and when life hurts you, cause it will, remember the hurt, the hurt is good, it means you’re out of that cave, but please, if you don’t mind, for the sake of your poor old dad, keep the door open three inches”#StrangerThings pic.twitter.com/VTsfjDBNID
— cele | st 3 spoilers (@upsidebangtan) July 6, 2019
“keep the door open three inches” #strangerthingsseason3 pic.twitter.com/f0nDaHGMzq
— moni (@moni_caaaaa) July 4, 2019
#strangerthingsseason3
— tatiana ™️ (@tatianajhrndz) July 4, 2019
*el reading hoppers note*
hopper: “don’t forget to leave the door open three inches”
me: pic.twitter.com/nmxxI9ZZJL
#strangerthings #strangerthings3 “but please, if you don’t mind, for the sake of your poor old dad, keep the door open three inches" pic.twitter.com/TJvvwIy27B
— 🌟 spoilers (@urlocaldumbass_) July 6, 2019
Some quotes that always gonna make me cry
— Zeref (@loraskuk) July 4, 2019
“I love you 3000 times.”
“Keep the door open 3 inches.”#StrangersThings3
"I love you 3000"
— Drieli Freitas (@Drieli_Freitass) July 5, 2019
"Keep the door open 3 inches"
Thanks 2019, I officially hate the number 3. #StrangerThings #endgame
Tony stark: I love you 3000!
— Fahad🤔 (@KhannVict434) July 6, 2019
Hopper: Keep the door open three inches!
Me:#AvengersEndgame#StrangersThings pic.twitter.com/YrC33MI5vt
first “i love you 3000” and now “keep the door open three inches”#StrangerThings pic.twitter.com/6mjZyDw93w
— Emina (@bizzleziga) July 6, 2019
keep the door open 3 inches and love you 3000 hit the exact same way #StrangerThings pic.twitter.com/ncULo8SGF3
— ethereal (@itshussa) July 7, 2019
my mom watching me cry over a letter written to stop two 14 year olds to keep the door 3 inches open while making out #StrangersThings3#StrangersThings pic.twitter.com/kKWgQnIrs8
— not lizzette🐥 (@lizzetteeeeee) July 6, 2019
Hopper: "Keep the Door open 3 inches "
— Niranjan (@sonu_k7) July 5, 2019
Entire Stanger Things Fanbase: #Strangerthings #StrangersThings3 #StrangerThings3 pic.twitter.com/Jyk1K3QNTv
hopper when the door isn’t open three inches#StrangersThings3 pic.twitter.com/HC1NTMeNmK
— rebecca (@tropicpeaches) July 5, 2019
“ 3 INCHES “ #strangerthings pic.twitter.com/IYCmHXZHON
— V (@VannteyHeng) July 5, 2019
Mike and el: doesn’t leave the door open at 3 inches
— z (@crybabyzeh) July 7, 2019
Hopper: #StrangerThings pic.twitter.com/yC0deiaVMI
"for the sake of your poor old dad, keep the door open 3 inches” #strangerthings pic.twitter.com/u206C8BU8a
— kait (@kaaiithlyn) July 7, 2019
David Harbour and Millie Bobby Brown have also been referencing the speech on Instagram with their latest posts... David posting about the first line in the speech where Hopper calls back to the moment he left Eggos out in the woods for Eleven in season 2 and Millie posting some heartbreaking fan art of Hopper and El.
But it's David's comment on Millie's post that has reduced the fandom to tears again.